Wait a few weeks and look at all the scratches. Then you'll know it's Iridium.
I have yet to scratch my ruby iridium lenses on my XX's and have had them for roughly 4 years.
I clean them with the bag they came in. When the bag gets nasty or they get a little dirtier than usual, I use a spare bag, some Dove dishwashing liquid, and warm water to do the trick.
If you think about it, you have oils on your fingers and on your body. If you perch the glasses on your head or touch the glasses bag with your fingers, then you will need to clean that oil out at some point.
Regardless, I have yet to scratcha pair of Oakley lenses, and it isn't from lack of opportunity. While one should exercise the reasonable amount of care one would expect when having purchased a pair of $75 + sunglasses, all 4 pairs I own have been VERY durable and have yet to scratch.